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hey frns this is my sincere qn to all of u
i m a dropper and will be ans jee as well as boards in 2009
you all know that a person get really bogged down by studying again and again same thing
I M IN DEPRESSION
TODAY ID 8 TH NOV
AND SINCERELY I HAVE NOT YET STARTED MY PREPARATION
WHENEVER i sit to study i get attracted to tv
this is due to my 0% confidence and motivation
i think i m useless
sometimes i even curse myself for not using this year properly
if i dont get next year then all my dreams of doing civil engg from iit b will crash
some i even think of SUICIDE
BUT SOMETIMES I CANT EVEN CONTROL MYSELF
(i was almost out of death just now because i attempte suicide but luckily i changed my decision in the last second)
please tell me was my above decision correct or wrong?
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yaar its easy to die as one day we are destined to bt do
wat u think wat is not destined u think
coz human beings are most powerful beings on earth and nothing is impossible for us
see therz much time left now and u can do it if u forget every pleasure and put all ur effots in it
i would suggest u to read a book when u r stressed bt dont give all ur time to this coz u have to go for the preparation
book is "DISCOVER YOUR DESTINY WITH THE MONK WHO SOLD HIS FERRARI" by robin sharma
surely u will be destressed
bt this is the time u must forget ur fears as it will never help u
do what helps u that is study
"this is the life u hav got to do wat others cant do to become gr8"
and lance armstrong was told he would neber recover from blood cancer go for sports back bt he did due to his will power
its the strongest thing we have got
dnt think u
how many times they would have lost confidence?
bt they all got up ,FOUGHT UP AND GOT THEIR POSITION WAT OTERS TOLD WAS IMPOSSIBLE FOR THEM
ALL BIG DREAMS WERE FIRST TOLD IMPOSSIBLE
BT REAL MAN IS WHO MAKES IMPOSSIBLE POSSIBLE
CHAMPION IS WHO HAVE THE COURAGE TO BURN THE EXTRA % OF THE ENERGY WAT OTHERS ARE AFRAID TO BURN
REMEMBER 4 MILES AN HOUR STORY
IT WAS TOLD THAT ITS IMPOSSIBLE FOR A PERSON TO CROSS 4 MILES IN LESS THAN AN HOUR BT WEN A PERSON CROSSED IT AND BROKE THE IMPOSSIBLE BELIEF THEN MANY CROSSED AS THEY GOT TO KNOW THE REALITY
SO I JUST WANT TO SAY
JST BELIEVE IN URSELF
The above lines r yours achinbansal.... then why r u running away frm ur own thoughts??
Look, u r not the only person facing such a situation, there r many such students in the slot. But attempting.. SUICIDE... is not a rite step.
Sometimes i too get a feeling as if i hvnt completed a single chapter.
These things r obvious. But one shud hv d courage,confidence n determination to crack IIT.
Instead of wasting ur time in front of d TV, read some encouraging thoughts, articles , listen to some encouraging songs. This will certnly boost u up. Whenevr u feel depressed, talk to ur family, share ur thoughts with them. Mann hi mann plauw math pakana.
Remembr, theres no alternative to hardwork. Utilise these 5 months efficiently n set an example for others by cracking IIT. Keep smiling.
ALL THE VERY BEST !!!
attempting suicide !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.............sorry to say dear but it reflects negative part of ur personality........newayz.....
TV.....personnaly.....as d xams were over n i had a relaxing month of may(dis yaer)....to n xtent i too was addicted but now i hate tv ..........coz i don hav tym to watch it.......its a busy lyf......u shud not hav tym for dat idiot box...........come onlyn .......verrry//.......less........
study in a day , to d extent u r saturated ......den u can relax......
if u really want jee......den please put a full stop to all other activities for a month or so.......
think less study more!!!!..........relllllllllaaaaaaxxxxx
neways.....u have a lot more tym....
one que.....
how come u have boards in ur drop year??????????????????????????????
1)YOUR SELF
2.)ABOUT YOUR PARENTS AND FRIENDS WHO BELIEVES YOU.....
WELL YOU ARE AT LEAST STUDYING CLASS 12TH BOARD SYLLABUS PROVIDING 55% OF YOUR COMPETITIVE EXAM PREPARATION REST STUDY FOR AT LEAST FOR 2 HOURS DAILY DURING NIGHT..........
ABOUT ME:CURRENTLY I AM PURSUING MY B.E. DEGREE FROM MPCCET COLLEGE.MY SCORE WAS 167 IN IIT-JEE 2008 (WAS DISQUALIFIED DUE TO -3 IN CHEMISTRY).THIS YEAR I AM MAKING MY PREPARATION HARD TO CRACK JEE-2009 WITH GOOD RANK..
NOW AS A MATTER A FACT : I HAVE JOINED FOR THE SAKE OF MY PARENTS OTHER WISE I MIGHT HAVE TAKEN A DROP LIKE YOU FRIEND.
GOLDEN RULE FOR ME I BELIEVE TAKE THE SAME FROM YOUR SIDE..........................
If
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is equal to
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
Hard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%
Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%
Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%
( don't most of us think this is the most important ??? )
Then what makes 100% ?
Is it Money ? ... NO ! ! !
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%
Leadership ? ... NO ! ! !
L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%
Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our attitude.
To go to the top,
to that 100% ,
what we really need to go further... a bit more...
ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%
KEEP YOUR ATTITUDE HIGH REST WILL HAPPEN ON THEIR OWN........
dont think about suicide and all those -ve thoughts.......
der is still some time remaining........its definatly quite sufficient,,,,,,,
its good to know dat u have a definate dream for ur future of doing civil engg in iitb........50% of the work is done.......
now only ur hard work and dedication can get u thru the next 50%......
even i have jus started my jee preps......trust me i know how bad it feels......i even got a percentile score of 0.84 (its evn less dan 1)....it means i am one of the worst students in india acc to the test series,,,,,trust me i got insulted very badly.....
but i have started studing finally.....i have realised my mistakes and problems......
i know for many of us iit is evrything ....its next to heaven ,,,,,,but it doesnyt mean we suicice and go under depresion if we dont get thru,,,,,,,,
u still have time.....make maximum use of it......
its not possible to go back in time and make a new beginging.....but its always possible to start now and make a happy ending........
smooth seas dont make skillfull sailors........if u struggle now u will get the experince to face all bigger chalenges in life......
try not to watch tv......tell ur parents to keep it off and dont let u go near it during ur study time......
watch it only for mayb 1 hour at the max in a day......u have to sacrifice all the enjoyment in life for some time.....atleast reduce it.....even i am trying to do the same......its not easy but atleast i am trying......even u do the same......
u consider.....
self = best
post multiplying by study on both sides we get
self study= best study......
i know some guy who did 3 months of pres and got ranks of 3000.......first clear all ur concepts den go for the problems......u will do good...
its come down to the end.......try all u can.......
all the best......hope u complete ur dream!!!
Jinke dil main lagan ho,unke liye samay mayene nahi rakhta..................
Woh din-raat mehnat karke apne sapane ko pura karke hi rakhte hain....................
Agar aapke pass lagan hai kuch kar dikhane ki to bhagwaan be aakar aapko nahi rok sakte....................
ALL THE BEST...........U CAN DO IT.........
hey man jus b cool k... y do u wana die so soon man..coz u think u wnt get in iit????
ur continuing 12th for the second time so i think ur more well prepared then any 1 else.i jus wan to tell u dat frm now on close ur eyes n say,,,i will do it...i will get in iit..n work very hard for da next 6 months.revise everythin uve learnt n rebuild ur concepts...
u kno i also had problem of the tv....the best way to prevent urself from gettin addicted to tv is to keep it switchoff.
jus dnt turn it on wen ur free also..after studin for long hours dnt sit in da tv..jus listen to some cool songs or go for a walk outside...if u sit once in front of the tv..u wnt feel like getin up n u wnt b able to concentrate while studin also..so tell ur parents or do it 4 urself , to put out da plug of the tv and keep it in thepacket.
for next six months..
man dnt lose hope.....u can do it....jus work work ...i dnt think god wnt reward u wen u work hard..so work hard n get in iit n inspire me man..
Hey yaar.. relax...control ur self....IIT is not so important than ur death...It is an extra qualification.A man can do wonders than a qualifiacation.
If u feel tv is ur disturbance, tell ur parents to cut cable connection or while u become anger, break it... It is not as costly as ur goal.what else.....Dedication is must
Regression should not be there in mans life.See this word in dictionary.Do mistke no prob..,but if u know that it is a mistake ,never thought to do that.
For motivation see some videos in u tube by typing IIT in search bar...For confidence start solving prob with basic prob to hard prob....Take guidance from goiit.
Not only hard work,smart work also pays u.use some concentration techniques...Time factor is only while writing JEE,not while studying.some can study 1 chap in 1/2 hr some in 2 hr..It depends on reader and chap.
Any other prob ,nudge me
Die for our country, not for silly reasons
ALL THE BEST.
Though u lose in battle no prob there are innumerable ways...Do masters degree in IIT by writing GATE exam.It matters that u r iitian not how u became....
DONT TRY LIKE THAT . BE BOLD ITS COMMON EVERY one WILL SEE TV.
IN THE CASE OF U ARE NOT FACING APROBLEM AT ALL.
IF U DONOT GOT ANY DONT BE TENSED
NOTHING TO WORRY
THESE ARE SIMPLE IN LIFE.
AFTER KNOWING MY LIFE IF U WANT TO SUISIDE THEN DO.
I AM ONE OF THE TOPPER TILL 9TH CLASS .
AT SUDDEN MY FATHER DEAD. I WENT INTO DEPRESSION
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.WHAT EVER I DO ITS FAILING .I CHANGED 3 COLLEGES
I TOO THOUGHT LIKE THAT. I AM PLAYING TENNIS IAT THE TIME OF ITF TOURNAMENT I GOT APPENDICIDES. NOT ONLY U NAD ME ARE FACING PROBLEMS EVERY ONE IS FACING THEM.THESE IIT MARKS ARE NOT ONLY AMBITIOUS IN LIFE THERE ARE SO MANY. TRY TO UNDERSTAND ME . IF U HAVE ANY PROBLEMS ASK I WILL TRY MY LEVEL BEST TO ENCOURAGE U.
BE HAPPY ENJOY VERY MOMENT.
Not clearing IIT-JEE is not the end of the world. Try preparing for other competetive exams as well. Take online tests if are not able to concentrate on . When you will see that you are not able to answer some questions you will search for it in books and slowly develop interest in studies.
anhh...serious problem mate
well....not dat much serious dat u are thinking of suicide....lifez precious....derz nothing above it/...
u dint started ur preps , fine....it happens....
u can start them now.....u got still much time to prepare........dont worry....study for 3 hours/subject daily , and u will be running fine till feb....dont think dat u are doing d same topic again coz u are just studying fr IIT not whole worlds' problems....for confidence....well u will only get it when u will study and solve some good qs....mind it , when u will solve 2-3 qs urself....(hard ones) , u will be confident.....atleast 50-60% confident....
u got to start ur preps now , therez nt much time left......4-5 months u got..........
also....
abt TV , well dat only u can do when u realize wat IIT n its preps means , if u disconnect ur cable network.....ur mind will be diverted towards pc.....
soo u got to realize dat if u study for 5 months , u will be successful... 5 months out of ur life....and u are fame.....
soo...dec ision is urs
all the best for ur studies....
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P.S never write or think anythng abt suicide...IIT is nt the end of the road....atleast think abt ur parents first....
enjoy with books ;)
~~~~~cheers!!!!
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