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Blazing goIITian

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I deserve ur help on my goal....Plz look at this
Engineering Entrance , JEE Main , JEE Main & Advanced

Have patience to read this See the twists in my life.....I think only goiitians can help me out...My life became as question....The 3rd para is very imp U will take less than 5 min to read ...Plz I want ur 5 min time of ur whole life...Even my parents dont know this....


 


   I was from a town in A.P...I studied in some school(state board) where no one speaks eng properly...but faculty was awsome...They told us to speak eng but we never listened...My basics were good.To be frank I studied well defeating who ever comes in my way...I got to know about IIT by my friend and my sir.So I collected information of IIT and what to do for it by 10 th and made a plan.I started reading NCERT IX and X and i finished...I told about IIT to my parents and they encouraged me....I thought of joining narayana in hyd but i hate hostel....SO we thought shifing to hyd


 


           I scored good in 10th...and even my school was proud of me,, And this was twist I never expected .Due to some personal and financial reasons,I was to go to bangalore and study,,,,It unexpectedly happened, I came there by june and almost all admissions are over.Finally I got in some good college which I deserved by luck...This college has awsome library that 90% of all iit books are available....I searched for Coaching institute...I was not selected for FIIT JEE and all other adm were are over.FInally I selected in Brilliant...


 


           I joined in August and vry late...Faculty amd Material was super as u know....In math trign was over,,,,, chem-stoich,states of matter,chem bond  were over,,,,,,phy----units and dimensions to work and energy was over....I was very good at math...AS for phy and chem previous were used in next chap I had not understood mechanics and phy chem...FIrst i thought of startind from first after i realised and practised from chap they were dealing...Now it is like i cant go back and go front....For chem.org was started so now there was no prob....But for phy what i missed was really imp.....so i cant understand anything now what to do ???All my freinds were understanding but I was not....


 


            Now I am not able to manage both boards and JEE...I am getting less marks in both.My parents were thinking that my performance goes down....SOme times I feel I dont have it any more.....But i didnt want to give up.My parents were spending much and expecting some thing good from me.....I just dont want to hurt so I didnt told them...


 


            My exams were in jan,feb... I had jee classes till feb.I was free in mar,april....


 


I was good in math


 


Mechanics and Phy chem was over but I dont know anything of them....not able to solve any prob


 


My confidence and motivation level is going to 0....help me what to do



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6 Jan 2009 06:55:54 IST
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Hi jesh,I'm sry for the delay in responding to you........


Please go thru this one since I spent much time in typing this out just 4 u........


Well,first of I have 2 admit the fact that I was also facing the same problem as yours........


well infact getiing a percentage of 94 in 10th still didn't prove my worth......


what I meant to say is that although I got gud marks in 10th ,I was lost in total overconfidence.And moreover many students came from state board to my college.Since their sylabbus was very not so heavy as compared to CBSE,they seemed to know less.And it further increased the heights of my overconfidence.


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and finally I managed to get pass marks in my 11th.Infact the teacher gave me 35 marks just to make me pass.


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.........................imagine my situation.


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then towards the begining of 12th I realised that I have to work hard......I tried to study by sacrifiing various thinhg but couldn't.......I suffered the same situation which U r facing now.......


then I noticed a fact......................whenever some of our relatives come to our home,they give so much respect to my dad and I wondering what was all this respect for????!!!!!...........


I was infact scared to talk with my dad since I got less marks and he didn't tolerate that.........Finally,I grabed my guts and asked my dad 'why others respect u so much'


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Then ,he told me his story.........


When he was young ,he used to suffer a lot.Not the kind of suffereing which we r going thru but a different one.


My grandparents didn't have money to provide food for the family.....they were living in a average dwelling ...dad and his brothers and sisters  were dying to even taste ice-creams...their relatives were slightly well off and hence didn't treat my dad's family properly......there is too much to say at present by I have 2 go to school.......Well,all these things were working out in my dad's head.....In facact my grandparents coludn't suppliment the school fees for my dad which was alter all 5 Rs apart from the scholarships which my dad got....Lack of money led him to borrow cash from his relatives who mistreated him.....imagine that situation....(tears start rollin from my eyes).......and finally he managed to do his diploma.......since ,he was the first born of the family ,all his younger brothers and sisters depended on him for completing their education.....there was no one to guided my dad in which  field should he opt for continuing his educatuion since my granddad didn't know much.......To complete his diploma he used travel 18km daily on his cycle(imagine  .....18km).....Finally,he got a job in HMT and worked very hard there and proved himself there......And then he managed to go abroad and work the same way there and proved himself................................................................Being a son of such a wonderful father I fell proud that now my dad earns about 80,000 per month............HARD WORK SURELY PAYES...................


now,his relatives are not so rich as him and hence they respect him....................


during my dad's times,there was no television no much movies to concentrate upon.No any sorts of modern entertainment.My dad often says that we r gifted and I didn't realise it so deeply as I realised now...................................................................................................................................................................................................................





I started to ponder all these suffering underwent by my dad,and I made a firm decicion that I will study.......


If u make a strong decicion I notice that all other interests fade away...........


As you can notice noways I rarely surf the net................................


I don't seem to be much interested in movies..................


I don't seem to have much intereset in hair styles..........


Not much interested in looks............


only studies...................


IT PAID IT'S RESULTS


Now I can say that I'm back to my 10th std level securing 89% in my pre boards.................


Hence,my advice is to ask your parents regarding their past and know more of the suffering the underwent........


I'm sure u'll surely be benifitted from that.........


Hope my advice helped u.................


take care................................................................

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8 Jan 2009 08:53:56 IST
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Hi


Just relax yourself....


Utilize your time for the maximum....


First of all start studying without wasting time and you will gain confidence by yourself...


Develop lot of imagination so that you can understand the concepts....


Listen to good music so that your mind will get good relief of the work....


Forget the past...build the present..Enjoy the future...


 


ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR SUCCESSFUL FUTURE...


Cool goIITian

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1 Mar 2009 10:01:17 IST
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HEHE
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1 Mar 2009 13:27:29 IST
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hi

u will feel a lot better if u confide with ur parents and get help from them. Remember u are not doing justice by being frank with them it might be tough but believe me it will take a lot of weight off you and u can focus bettter.


Blazing goIITian

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1 Mar 2009 13:51:18 IST
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i din told that time,,,, but now i told them....They din tell anything... they just told me to do ur best...
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1 Mar 2009 14:13:02 IST
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u know ur forum gave me the inspiration ...... what all i should say..... u have recieved many replies..... but tell me u will have a very firm n strong concepts of pcm of class 11th till now .....huh
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1 Mar 2009 19:38:14 IST
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The story is a classic


very inspirational. 


Blazing goIITian

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1 Mar 2009 21:43:06 IST
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i think this topic became useful to others than me..... cmon goiitians i need ur advices... I never thought that many pepoples are facing with the same problem of mine....I got many nudges that this is my life story...even i am in same position...etc....
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1 Mar 2009 22:21:24 IST
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ahhhhh..............now dis is pure negativity wud say......wud simply say.....u know wat.....u are done wid many of tthings.....jee needs excelence.....its just an exam.....to face...u r getting emotional to it.....believe me ....making jee a hype....n getting emotionally attached is one of d most foolish thhings most aspirants do...m telling u ....coz i have suffered it......just study ....not for jee but for ur knowledge and for your own skills ....to be d best.......n leave d rest.......pull up d socks ...put ur fullest efforts to it........gud luck! 


Blazing goIITian

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2 Mar 2009 07:42:34 IST
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what more can be said when you have such a lot of advice piled up infront of you!!!!!!!
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2 Mar 2009 08:13:58 IST
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me too same condition man..my parens r also furios with me coz i got so less marks in ma 11th final..n dat also coz i was doin hc verma through out the year..bt sm how m in 12th now..n i ve decided never to give up my goal to iit.....so all da best to u too.....

Cool goIITian

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2 Mar 2009 09:37:06 IST
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Well as many others have said on this forum, the situation that you.re facing is not something very unique. Everyone of us has some problem of that sort. My advice would be to try to understand and learn whatever your teachers are teaching you at the institute. Once you get perfect with that , your confidence levels will improve. Once that happens, during your vacation(which I believe you'll have) just study whatever you have missed out on coolly from some book of your choice. And in case you are unable to understand whatever is being taught because of the fact that you missed out on some classes in the beginning,try to find out what theorem or what principle was applied there. Then just go through that concept to get a brief idea of what it is, so that you are able to understand that portion which is being taught
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2 Mar 2009 09:50:01 IST
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yes hes rite

Blazing goIITian

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2 Mar 2009 16:19:04 IST
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Thanks a ton^infinity for all the advices.... I was not emosional abt iit . It is one of the biggest challenges... I just want to achieve it.... I was good before and i just asked to know why did i become like this.... MY motivational level is up by reading first 3 or 4 replies... I practised for JEE and neglected college...So now i am getting very less marks in both... Even i failed in  one sub(chem) for the first time in my life.so my parents lost hopes on me.NOw finals are goin.I had phy today and screwed it up.Everytime i wont like studyin before exams..Same thing happened in  10th boards but i got 91% but  i will get very less this time  for sure.. for JEE I was good in only some chaps.... and my inst goes very fast then any inst in my place... I was gud in math... but dont know phy and chem anythin.. they completed mechanics,waves,sound,heat parts for phy...and phy chem,goc,hydrocarbons,s&p blocks for chem.. I was not sure in any of these portions except org....had 2 months holidays..Now plz help me how to plan these chaps and give some studytips for readin phy and chem...thats enuff.. thank u agin for reading this....

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2 Mar 2009 16:20:25 IST
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So many advices....gossshhh....I suppose i m late....but neways...see buddy....u still have one long year...which also includes almost 2 months when u will not have to go to school.....so u can utilise them easily.....but of course u will have to adapt total isolation from now itself....have a strong determination in urself then no one can stop u....goiit is with u....Dont Worry.....do the deeds...leave the result on God almighty.....Best Of Luck...so that u can utilise the whole year without any problems....Cheers!!!!
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2 Mar 2009 21:16:44 IST
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 Hey mate,

 

Sorry for replying late 

 

but according to me (my personal view) students like u only go into IIT's , yeah u got the desire to be there at the top , u want to study , u want to learn.....isnt it? But the only problem is that u think too much....

 

See mate , we all face difficulties in our life , so what if u werent able to attend some classes , it wont stop u from going into IIT at all

 

See ur confidence is down , its ok but it wont help u anyways......

 

U just study what u are being taught in your coaching classes for the time being , take time for some extra lectures on weekends if u can , dont give much tests , instead utilize that time for covering ur previous chapters.....

also dont totally rely on coaching teachers yaar , try to learn urself , mind it its nt at all difficult.......

 

u say ur parents have lost their hope , soo take it in positive sense na , u got no pressure on u wat so ever.......study well n show ur worth.....

n yaa i have read this sentence in most of ur replies 

 

 I was gud in math... but dont know phy and chem anythin "

yaar dont think like that , atleast u knw wat u have read in this period , u should be good in all 3 subjects or atleast 2 of them

 

study hard , dont think abt the past or future , think abt today.....wat have u done all day?? how much u have studied ........

n from now on 

follow this time table if u can study for 6 hours a day 3 for ur school exams (1 hour each) n 3 for ur JEE (1 hour each sub...) n in these 3 hours try to learn the part u missed.....

 

dont worry mate , u still gt 1 whole year with u , a lot can change in this 1 year.....

also they will teach u these missing chapters again if u take any program of brilliant 

 

so Dont worry about ur missing part , just buck up and start practising hard

 

Any queries do knock back..............

 

~ALL THE BEST

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30 Jun 2009 20:34:27 IST
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GREAT TO SEE GOIITIANS GIVING S...............
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30 Jun 2009 20:34:48 IST
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GREAT TO SEE GOIITIANS GIVING so MANY REPLIES AND BIG......
30 Jun 2009 20:56:40 IST
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 Hey Jesh , i think you should deal this situation with more patience !!! Do not think so much !!! I think you Just Need a Nice Time management , so just look this & think about this !
 
 

With proper time management you will still be able to study for IIT-JEE without much tension in your mind and excel in the examination. Consequently, you will manage to secure yourself a place in this incredible institution. To administer your time productively it is important that you are aware of your goals. This will help you in sequencing and prioritizing your daily activities, through a proper schedule. The daily schedule can include activities like studying, playing, and resting. Make sure you stick to your schedule. Time management ensures that you create a personalized schedule that works for you and lends you the flexibility to decide what is important for you.

 

Some more tips ----


1- Time never stops. Learn to utilize the time that you have to the fullest and make an effort to get the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction out of each moment.


2- Each day is a new beginning. Make sure that you plan each day of your life with proper care and set daily goals. Make sure to prioritize these daily goals. Maintain a laundry list of tasks for the day and be sure to complete each according to the daily schedule.


3- Make deadlines for yourself and push yourself to achieve them, may whatever come.

 

 

Surely , these tips would be enough to get through the college of your choice !

 

Rest your luck !!!

SO , Just Go On & On !!!

 

 

Cheers  Dude , success will hit your path for sure !!!                                                     \S//

 

 

 

 
 
 
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Dont be a kid and make a big fuss about it. U got a lot of attention. start working!



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