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22 Jun 2007 21:17:06 IST

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CEASE FIRE......

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recenlty , i'm having a peculiar problem.......i study and study hard ................yet i get 3rd grade marks...recently in my institute test ,i got 27 out of 228.
pls help..

i beg you, i always think i'm done with my studies.but wrong i am...
they said ........
class 11th was tough but it would be easy in 12th..but here in my case...............
i found 11th easy as i scored 88% in school exam and got into the top batch due to my wonderful performance in my institute's reshufling test........

but, from when i have come to 12th. i'm dying and thats killing me...sir ,i have a lot of confidence yet its of no use...i think seriously there's a problem with me..
i sometime cry and cry my heart out....my parents support me.....they make me feel the best but yet , my present situation makes me feel more like making the end of me.........
i don't know what is happening to me...i believe in god so i turn up to you as your stupid,foolish younger brother to help me otherwise i would only break myself.....
i am in pain.its because ,i cann't do i want to...i want to make my parents happy..but.......
i do a lot of thinking on my studies on the concepts..
i also think a lot in the correct direction .....but still ....what i think is correct is wrong...
i don't have any habit of making wild guesses....but yet.................
i work hard ,study,think but still get marks even lesser than those rich kids who do no study.......i know they cheat, but no matter they get better marks and thats imp.
and in the process ,i loose, as people can see only my 10% marks,not the useless 100%effort i put...i have tried it all...meditated, did yoga...studied at nights, studied in early morning...yet i don't know why.
sometimes , in darkness...i think why me??????????...where is ayush?????
i have no choice left...

i always try to solve my problems myself...i'm hard at my heart...but this time it has got me by my neck...its breaking me...and soon i will shatter in pieces...i don't know you can help or not....but , i wanted to tell this to someone......and i chose you...

So you all ....

let me explain...i asked for help to puneet sir...

but he wanted it here so, that he can answer it and all others may also benefit..........

Though i know you all will not have this peculiar problem as mine,then a part of it may......

I stop and stand aside and look at the road i'm tending to...

thank you...

keep smiling................

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S k

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Joined: 12 May 2007

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22 Jun 2007 21:41:45 IST

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chalo.....atleast...you are normal...

my friend...i have undergone something like this as well...not as bad as yours

but still , pretty bad...

see....at this point of time...u have 2 ask ur soul honestly....why did u take

science and not commerce...because intelligent people take science....or u

wont be able 2 get into IIT if u dont take it...or because u loved it....

If ur opinions are mixed..say in the ratio 1:2:3 respectively....then its fine....and ur normal....lol

forget about IIT and other stuff and just love ur studies...its easier said than

done but just dont care abt ur exams.....let them go to hell ( if not heaven...)

and remember the following 2 things...

WHEN TIMES ARE BAD....EVEN JELLY BREAKS UR TOOTH....

FORM IS TEMPORARY BUT CLASS IS PERMANENT....

u dont need to prove anything to anybody else......just be honest 2 urself...

just chillax.....and dont be under pressure while studying that u have to score

well or impress ur girlfriend ( i.e. if u have one )....lol

BELIEVE ME...the most imp. thing is being honest to urself...n i bet...success

wud be urs..

chalo ab bahut bhashan ho gaya....ciao...!!

puneet

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27 Jun 2007 10:41:07 IST

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hey

well, indeed ur problem is a peculiar one and I shall be happy to answer it dear.

First of all let me tell u that this happens with many people, so though u may feel that wat is happeing with u is completely out of box it is not so. If u ever happen to talk to ur parents or ur elder siblings I am sure each one of them will tell u atleast of a time when this occured to them. So relax a bit.

At times it so happens that u are doing everything correct even then the things go in a direction which is not so correct and then I very well understand that at that time the frustration builds and it so happens that u feel completely lost. I can feel that feeling coz i myself has had one. I clearly remember that I was in 4th semester of my college when things suddenly started going really weird. I started getting really low marks. I was not able to finish assignments. My proposals were rejected twice and so on. I at that felt almost the same way as u probably do today. At that time I talked to my mother and she said that a person cannot always win. And let me tell u that yes it is true, u cannot always win. I must say that losing is a bad habbit but u shud be strong enuf to take it if it comes ur way.
Life will test u many a times and take it just like that. However wat is important is that u do not lose out on the studies. Keep working hard, the God is afterall not that bad also. U will win one day. Something will change ur life as it did mine. It is just a phase that will pass away.

U have mentioned about the "rich kids" getting good marks. Let me ask u how u define richness. I define it in terms of honesty. And if u are honest enuf, u are rich, and no one else.

You have made a correct observation that people see the output and not the effort. True very true but y to care about people when u know that u are correct .. do not care bout people .. okay

So wat I suggest is that instead of getting perturbed just keep working and good will come ur way. I am sure it will. Just keep ur patience. okay ..

ANd any help we are always there ..

Best of Luck

cheers

ayu kumar

New kid on the Block

Joined: 16 Feb 2007

Posts: 14

22 Dec 2007 19:33:04 IST

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hey....you can never lose...as far as i know..

he's my best friend.and i know he is the best.he ougth to be

after all.he is such a genius.

friends...i can bet on my life he'll surely get into iit...in his very first attempt,and that too in top 10.

he is made for the best.and i know it , soon everyone will know it .

13th april is not far....look for his photograph in iit jee top 10 list.

and...as you always say-KEEP SMILING

abc def

Hot goIITian

Joined: 27 Oct 2007

Posts: 102

23 Dec 2007 16:51:57 IST

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Hi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Please follow the following advice . This WILL help.

1. Don't get bored to read the theory of ANY chapter. Even if it is done in class , do it again at home.

2. Start with level I problems and gradually advance to level III , solve each and every problem on your own. If you can't recognise the main funda behind it and re-read it from your text - book with a slow pace and keeping the problem in mind.

3. Donkey work is useless. You are going to write JEE in the morning , so don't study at night. Study during the peak hours.

4. Read the problem very very carefully and thinking over it for minutes before writing the first step.

Chill!!!!!!!

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