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FRNZ

Here m not at all to disturb but yes I am disturbed !

Yesterday I went school 4 getting ma admit card dere all teachers (ma class teacher) said ?beta u hav got to do something special?these words made me mad

Made me realize where I hav gone

2 years ago I could not even dream of <90% which dis year hardly matters to me .situ is like anything above 80 will work

Yes iit has done all dis .these 2 years I was on fire burning day and night in fear of the d day .

Things hav changed a lot 4 me . my past was good and now its haunting mee

I want to burn dos results and certificates of mine .

Unse mujhe iit nahin milega

Got my Career pt ke papers

I do anthing between 230 -240 in them

Its gonna land me now where

All my mistakes I don knw what I ryt

Boads approaching and I ?????????..

Frankly

4 iit I din sacrificed ma share of enjoyment

Yes I did ma share of enjoy but sacrificed school studies and got tym 4 jee

Surely sacrificed my hobbies music games n all

School interaction n results

I was sooooooooooo blind that I left dos topics which not in jee syll

Covered dem now but

These thoughts r eating my tym

I think I hav become an escapist

A true escapist

Where I goona land after dis

If I don get iit den whats left

School report is gone already

Dos ppl think m gonna do wonders

But I see my results dey nt good

No good

Plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help

shubhayan_c

Dear jus chill which is d most important word during exams u cud do i thing just paste a white chart infront of ur study and write on it
"JUST CHILL YOU ARE AN IITIAN"
What it vl do is jus kill those negative thoughts that are haunting you try to be normal take everyday as jus d days dat used 2 b earlier.
And do play it will increase the oxygen supplied to our body and ur nervousness will decrease. Be normal dont over load yourself with your course and please stop thinking that you wont get iit.
the last and d most important that is kill the thought which says that u cant crack jee.
I know will do it
Best of Luck
Just Chill

iit.saurabh

chill down.friend...........in the way u have written ur topics says that u are really disturbed.........dont think that u cant crack iit............this negative thinking will do nothing............just think that i will and im capable of(this words give me too a enthusiasm to work harder)..........and rahi baat topics ki.........toh max topics of board are being covered in jee course so dont think about it.

you will pass with flying colours inur board as well as iit jee

BEST OF LUCK

Greatdreams

Well I think you need a break:
Quoting u:

Yesterday I went school 4 getting ma admit card dere all teachers (ma class teacher) said ?beta u hav got to do something special?

Why at all will they say this to you??,singling you only??

Next :

"Yes iit has done all dis .these 2 years I was on fire burning day and night in fear of the d day .

Things hav changed a lot 4 me . my past was good and now its haunting mee

I want to burn dos results and certificates of mine .

Unse mujhe iit nahin milega

Got my Career pt ke papers

I do anthing between 230 -240 in them

Its gonna land me now where "

You surely are all set to rock big there......stay relaxed and concentrate,Some1 who has sacrificed everything for IIT is never an escapist.......Have the belief and you can surely do it!!
Good luck!! Just don't lose the focus now.......have faith in God and success will be all yours.

ashishnavalakha

one simple tip to avoid these kind of thinking:

1. meditate and have faith in God.

dont wory about past, live in present and plan for future. these experience are to make u learn the lessons of life.

just take them in +ve way and keep smiling.

God is always with u.

sti

i jus wanna say 4get the past.............

chill and all the best

get out of negativ world. be optimistic..

lastly

GOD WILL HELP U

pink_ele

feeling better

gtreadreams

i dunno why they said

they can see well i hav not done good

i gonna rock or not

i donno

just study i feel may help

but each second of life i feel is against me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

bhavanawannastudy

u know what?! when i read ur post , i found that u r facing exactly the same prob. i m. expectations from teachers n parents bcoz we were doing so gud till class 10th, makes a little scred ,n we feel will we be able to prove them right??! what i do is - just say yes!..say "YES"in loud n clear words to urself..n remind urself that its not only the teachers n parents, but its also u who expects from urself, n u can easily prove urself right..if u have a strong determination! i mean i know it when we feel this way, it just seems that the whole world and our thoughts are swirling us from one direction to another but we need to keep our mind firm..n say to urself i cannot give up, my mind belongs to me n it will work as i wish it to... (pls pls pls..do try meditation...meditating in morning hours has really helped me a lot..in a situation like urs so i'll suggest u to do the same)

chimanshu_007

Hii

m well looking wat ur teachers said u , see they said u gotta do sth speacial means they are expecting sth from u...

i mean they knw u will be in IIT , but dey want a very good rank frm u....

and about other things....

we all (atleast I) know how much u have studied hard in these years...(year i meant since i knw u)......n those who work hard , will get wat they want....

nobody cares bout board marks.....i mean its okay u need above 80 for BITS , u say u will get it...

dats fine.....IIT is wat will make ur career next.....u wont hang a board in ur neck dat "I HAVE GOT ABOVE 90% IN MA BOARDS"

no one will ask u.....

anyways.....plzz see mark ma words...

u have done most of the hardwork......n now its time to be relaxed.....dun listen to anyone else , concentrate on ur own....just a matter of 2 months....after thatresults will show it all...

plzz dun loose ur focus....plz

ALL THE BEST :) :)

karthikvs

hiaaaa...........well long time since i came to goiit.......gud to b back.......

well getting back to point........

last year around the same time as ur now in......

i was in a similar situation.......though i wud say the expectations were not from ma teachers instead they were from frnds........

i had never prepared for boards.......still they wud come to me nd say

"bhai kvs tu tho board phod dega yaar...........97%(imagine 97.....i dont know how the hell in the name of heaven they came up with such huge numbers)se kam tho maarni nahi hai tujhe..........blah blah"

all i wud like to say is give a damn sh** to these expectations.........u dont live for others(i hope u dont!!!!!).........u live for urself.........and if ur aim is to crack jee.........concentrate on that without wasting ur time thinking about wat the world will think if you dont top boards nd stuff..........

and once u clear jee.........no one gives a second thought to ur board percentage......NO ONE.....board marks are just like a lipstick on a gals lips........if u got them its fine.........if u dont.....better still......

nd mind u..........if u hav put in hard work........none other than god himself(in the name of destiny)can stop u from getting into iit..........he didnt stop me..........and im sure he will not stop u......

and on the other side..........u will surely do well in borads.......rest assured.........i got some 94% in boards(im not proud of it).....im just mentioning this because its bhery easy to score in boards.......so common "aap tho mujse jaada hi laa doge"..........

so just dont traumatise ur mind with all this "high expectations" stuff..........

keep ur cool......

enjoy ur exam.........

ya do enjoy ur exams..........

hav fun in the boards(i started orkutting on ma board days........and before ma boards completed i had some 1000 scraps)

and ya.......go nd crack jee..........

ur an iitian.......nd no one dare stop u from being one..........

besties and c ya soon in iit.........

luv

kvs@iitg

ps.......sorry for the long reply..........hope after reading this boring reply.......u wont bore urself with such pessimistic thoughts..........

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