mein ye sab bahut hi dukhi ho kar keh raha hun.........just I wanna express my feelings...plz read it full if u want..

frndz my father is a psychic person......he really needs psychiatrist help........

he is full of frustation aur wo mujh par gussa nikalte rehte hain.....

I was an extremely brilliant stud upto 9th........then when I entered 10th,my father, like others started pushing me for studies but not too much......(due to my mother's illnes....) & I managed to pass wid 89%......

then when I opted to prep for iit in class 11th he started regarding iit as sumthing out of the world.....as a passport to success & happiness in life.......i.e.,he was simply overawed by it (& made me also) ........

then in class 12th , he started pressing me very hard......for both boards as well as iit........daily he used to abuse me & give lecture abt study only......I was really very fed up......he didn't hav any other topic to talk abt .....the result was that i cudn't m,ake it this time & got a air 11k in aieee.....

he really mentally tormented me....really hurted  me wid his behaviour......I was depressed bt decided to drop......

now when I am in search of coachings etc, he keeps rebuking me all the time.....he says that go to sum coll this time only....I don't want u here at home...next year u'd perform even worse than this..etc etc,.....& jab bhi wo mujhe dantte hein toh  my mother does that what we call...'aag mein ghi dalne ka kam' ....

I am really hurt at heart & I just wanted to share my feelings so I did here......

thanku for reading.......  I am really in a state for desperation but 1 thing is clear in my mind...I wanna go to iits......  

I have no 1 in my favour.......what shud I do?

Forget about JEE. It is not the end of the world. It doesn't really decide anything later in life. You have done well, congratulations!!!

Take up a good college and study well just as you like, do a MS+PHD or MBA and earn $$$(in rupees :D)

First of all, you must be ashamed for saying such words for ur father.

Woh jo bhi hain, jaise bhi hain, he is ur father.

I know the consequences of parental pressure are really bad but that doesnt mean that u insult them on a public portal.

I guess u must read this-

http://tarinbansal.blogspot.com/

Make ur father read it too.

Hope it helps.

Mr. Bansal, I must say, even his dad abuses him...isn't HE his dad's SON? Jaise bhi hain, Kaise bhi hain, He is his SON...why should this relation be considered only on one side?