Hello Ppl... this is gonna b really long...

pls have patience to read this... cause m really in need of great help...

 

I m a student of class 12th.. i mean i've just given ma boards this march from gujarat board.... n m not prepared fer aieee...

 

i m an iit aspirant...

 really interestede in it... i had filled up the form this year n don mind but cunt read even the questions...

i had gone to sleep actually in the second paper.. i had not prepared...

the booklet is now even as if just given in a student's hand to read the ques before exam starts...

 

its not because i dint wanna do... my dad threw me ma sis n ma mum out of the house at 8 in the evening... v had not place to go...

n my brain thrashed... totally confused...

i m not to return to my father now....

in any case... he is harrasing me n ma mum since i was born...

my sis is just in 5th now... he is a pain....

 

anyways... problems are a part of life... i'll cope with them...

but... i need a lot of suggestions...

i went into depression fer 4 5 days n spoiled the aieee preparation...

i was quite well prepared fer it...

but now i think of taking a break of a year.....

the first question..." SHUD I"

n then... i think of starting ma prep again from 7th may...

cause my last exam is on 6th...

 

the second question"WHICH TOPICS SHOULD I START WITH"

 

i mean... wat in phys... chem... which i one of ma weakest subjects...

n maths..

 

wat shud i do to make every subject equally strong...

 

which materials should i "start" reading????

 

what i have is...

 

physics:

pradeep of 11th...

ncert texts of both years..

HC Verma both parts...

 

chemistry...

OP TONDON :

Organic,

inorganic,

physical,

then both years ncert text...

 

maths...

RD Sharma of 11th...

ncert text of 11th(all of the texts are of the old syllabus..)

TMH Aieee..

any other book..

suggestions pls...

cause i m not gonna b able to have any guidance from teachers...

cause i dont have money to tae tutions...

 

as i wud b having a whole year .. so wat time should i give to each topics???

 

especially...

the division of topis n not chapters...

cause both are different....

 

starting is a problem...

cause i don know what should be a real orientation...

 

many questions in mind...

n a will to show every one who curses me tht i can do it...

thts all i want to say...

 

i will wait fer ur suggetions...

n answers to my questions...

cause without them i cant walk further....

hey dude just chill for few days ,same was the case with me,

my parents used to fight now they  divorced each other just the two days after IIT JEE , even my AIEEE went worst but man this is life,

always remember 'Difficulties, hardships , and long ardous path, are the things that give ur destination its value and charm.'

            this time i m determined to go into IIT, that to with a good rank, just follow some discipline , have control over yourself., and just go on working hard,

                      even i do not know wat to start with

but never let ur determination down  give yourself a boost of courage by saying 'i will win ,i will clear IIT' or something like that everyday before u sleep, and just after u wake up.

       

Ya, The first thing you have got to do is to calm down and stabilise yourself. It is a very good idea to give yourself a break for a few days(say a week) from the regular studies and do something that will cool you down , like reading a nice novel like "Les Miserables" of Victor Hugo, or listening to some cool calm sort of music. If taking a break is not possible i.e. if you still have some exams to give then study and prepare in an easy going and courageous way instead of a tense perfectionist way. Don't take too much tension, it will only spoil your efforts. While practising sums, try to take it as a game rather than as work. Whenever you are not able to solve something, don't get discouraged at all. We all find tons of problems which we can't solve at the first attempt.Just try to have an idea which section of which chapter the problem comes from. Read that section again and while reading, understand and enjoy the concepts therein, instead of thinking too much about how soon you need to complete it.  I daresay that if you enjoy and understand the concepts,  it will take much lesser time than when you bind yourself with time limits and continue to burden yourself thinking about those time limits or goals while studying. Better follow the order of topics as given in the book/syllabi. You may also try doing the topics in which you think you are strong. However in case of chemistry, reading vital chapters like atomic structure and chemical bonding will help you. As for books, the ones that you have are enough for now. Better opt for single books (e.g. only Concepts of Physics for the theory part of physics) Taking a lot of books will only dissipate your efforts. If you have any doubt or is not satisfied with a particular book then of course you can refer other books.  Later on, as you feel that you have mastered the topics then you can do problems from a lot of books. Question-banks containing numerous past question-papers are good for practice. What book do you have for XII Maths?

        I am not in a position to tell you whether dropping a year will be beneficial for you or not, because I haven't yet done any such thing .  many students just waste off the dropped year. But if you haven't any other option left, then do make full use of the dropped year. You should also ask the Goiit member magiclko about this, coz I think she has had the experience of dropping a year ( as shown in her profile).

      

         Now, I haven't any right to talk about your personal or family life or its problems. But still I give you some very general advice. Maintain your peace of mind. Try to remain indifferent towards people who inflict any wrong upon you. Don't burden your own mind by thinking how cruel or unjust they are. Don't like them but don't hate them either.  Just remain neutral,  and don't let their actions bother your peace of mind. You also need to change an idea of yours. Remember that the purpose of all your hard workis not to show them what you can do, but to do something beneficial or meaningful in life, to serve your felowmen.  There is no use wasting your in showing others your capabilities, coz your life is worth much more important things than that. Calm and systematic hard work-work will bring much better outcomes than emotional excited ways,  be it in the case of studies or in any other field in life. 

          Life is a huge game of solving problems.  So, never lose hope even if you face tough ones. If you have faith in God, do pray. It will help you a lot.

         If you need further help,  please feel free to ask again.

                                           All the best.