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hey frns this is my sincere qn to all of u
i m a dropper and will be ans jee as well as boards in 2009
you all know that a person get really bogged down by studying again and again same thing
I M IN DEPRESSION
TODAY ID 8 TH NOV
AND SINCERELY I HAVE NOT YET STARTED MY PREPARATION
WHENEVER i sit to study i get attracted to tv
this is due to my 0% confidence and motivation
i think i m useless
sometimes i even curse myself for not using this year properly
if i dont get next year then all my dreams of doing civil engg from iit b will crash
some i even think of SUICIDE
BUT SOMETIMES I CANT EVEN CONTROL MYSELF
(i was almost out of death just now because i attempte suicide but luckily i changed my decision in the last second)
please tell me was my above decision correct or wrong?
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listen please relax dont think about suicide and all...
Just be positive and forget that the TV exists..its not like your favorite football team is going to lose if you dont watch the match or something..so only concentrate on yyour studies..if you really want to fulfill your dream then you must remove everything that comes in your way..it always happens that when you sit down to study your mind WILL get distracted..but you must have the will power and self control..if you keep telling yourself that you have 0 will power then you will beleive in it and face lots of problems..instead be Positive and then study...
pls reply..
hey buddy u still got 5 months.And 5 months is a lot of time.If u really want to get into an IIT or any prestigious institute what u need is determination and dedication in the studies.See along with u their are lots of people in the same zone now(some how me also) but it doesn't mean we lose all the hope.
What u need is proper utilization of this time.Well their is not need to fix a timetable coz no one can follow it and due to it we got further depressed.No need to leave tv but just don't stick to it whole day half an hour is enough this days.No need to stick to many books just try to get concepts clear by reading ncert or modern abc.Solve problem from tmh or ml khanna (any one) in physics just hc verma is enough and in chemistry just take op agarwal or any other book u like.Fix a weekly time table that in this particular week u will done this portion completely make a revision day in every 15 days to prevent from last time panic.UR PREPARING FOR BOARD also doesn't get that point but devote 1 hour for board ya that's more than enough and if u r reading abc or ncert then u can simelteneously prepare for both.cheers dude no worry.their are many who just woke up late and still make it.DONT LOOSE HOPE IS THE MORAL OF THE STORY.by then u have still 5 and half and maximum 7 months for bitsat so don't worry.stop thinking start doing.
for concentration read this post.
http://www.goiit.com/posts/show/420545.htm
what's the use trying to suicide.things will always turn out well.and
i am sure u'll get civil eng from iitb.have confidence in urself.
AND KEEP THAT THOUGHT FAR AWAY FROM UR MIND
keep revising....happy studying
best of luck
so u r out of form............it happens to every player(aspirant)........spend more time on pitch(stdy tble).......dont be aggresive.stick 2 ur basics....punish lose balls(easy prob) to gain confi........dont b influence by ballers reaction(peer pressure)they try distract.....do this till u get settled.....
even find it difficult...drop out frm team(jee for time being)....play for ranji trophy(prpare for aieee,board).......this will improve ur basics(help for brd enams).....u will perform better as u r once a part of national team(were preparing for jee).......this will inc ur conf. & basics.....u need 2 b fast in approach as youngsters r 2 trying hard.........soon u will be in ur original position............
best of luck!!!!!
@Prasad_iit
its true that i tought of suicide
ok then tell me if u were in my place then how would u react to the situation
do reply let me know
and to motivate mecan u give me some example of a student who cleared jee in 5 months of preparation
experts also reply
i m short of nickels so couldnt post it iin expert section
mere bhai mein jo tujhe batane ja raha hu wo bahut dhyan se dekhna . pahli baat tu pad nahi paa raha matlab tu padne se dur bhag raha hai mein sidha kah du tu kucch bhi kar tere ye bekaar suicide jesi harkate duniya ko batane se tera selection nahi hoga aur yah baat bhi dhyan rakh ki jo suicide karne ka prayaas karta hai vo mahapaap karta mujhe pata hai tu online hai tujh me curiocity hi nahi hai iitb me jaane ki to tu kese jaayega iitjee majak nahi hai tu jaana chaahta hai to mujhe se reply kar isse mujhe ye pata chalega ki tu kucch karna chahta hai ki nahi
i m stupid why i m waiting for your reply
pehli baat tujhe cable connection hatana padega
dusari baat tujhe net surfing cchodni padegi
teesari baat tujhe bahar ghumna band karna padega
aur sabse jyada imp. baat tujhe study karni
iitjee conceptual paper hai
boards ko abhi se 'do' ghante dena aur board ke puraane paper abhi se ratna chaalu
kar de
tu kar sakta hai. iitjee ke liye ya to individual le
tujhe jitne ka josh peda karna hoga yaad rakh iitjee is on 12apr 2009 i n i m also goin to give jee mahnat tujhe karni hai karm tujhe karna hai
jitna concept sikh sakta hai seekh le
meri shubh kaamnaye tere saath he aur aakhri baat is samay ko waste mat kar
abhi ghar ja aur ghusja padai mein
bye ......[dont think of suicide]
DO U REMEMBER?????IT WAS WRITTEN BY U.
1 saal,1 saal hai tumhare paas .Shayad tumhare jindgi ke sabse khaas 1 saal .
Ye saal tum accha pado ya bura ,magar ye 1 saal tumhe jindgi bhar yaad rahega.
To kese padh na hai aaj main tumhe nahi bataunga .Bas ye kahunga ki jao ,aur ye 1 saal ji bhar kar padh lo
Kyunki iske baad aane waali jindgi mein chahe kuch sahi ho ya na ho,chahe kuch rahe ya na rahe,tum padho ya na padho,magar ye 1 saal tumse koi nahin cheen sakta.
To maine socha hai ki is saal kaise padh na hai ye aaj main nahin bataounga balki tum mujhe bataoge ,khelkar
Kyunki ye 1 saal ek student apni jindgi ki sabse badhiya padhai kar gaya to ye 1 saal tumse bhagwaan bhi wapas nahin le sakta
To jao,jao aur apneaaap se,is jindgi se apne khuda se,aur har us insaan se jisne tumhpe bharosa nahin kiya
Apna ek saal jeelo?????
do u remember?
hi jus b cool
Im also DROPPIN an yr. and myself is even worser than u.
I go to a nearby coll 4 by dad's satisfaction.n im goin 2 start my prprn 4m Jan onwards only(after my 1st sem) though i may nt b continuin there.
so don thnk f suicide.jus rely on urself.hav self-confidence. u can crack JEE-2009.
thnk dat 4 our gud luk we gt even more iits. watever b d case i will b der 4 ur company.
u r better havin a month more dan myslf.
jus start prprin u cud easily do.
jus thnk IF I CANT DO IT, THEN WHO CAN DO IT.
GUD N8 sweet dreams tc
why do u think 5 months are not enough.And what will u gain by thinking 5 months are not enough.May be just thinking this 5 months that what if i must had utilized those 19 months.We destroy our remaining time by thinking the past time which we have already destroyed and add a month in that eact month.
What will u do now in this 5 month just post similar query again and again.U will get nothing frm it atleast just utilized it may be u can get a good rank.i know a bio student(with maths also as sub) started preparing in dec and still got below 2000 rank.
Only u can decide now if u have already decided that u can never get into an iit than why r u wasting time here.Go play enjoy
and still if u get a hint from ur mind that u can clear it started studying.ONLY U AND U CAN DO IT.May be next time u can put an ex. that u cleared it in 5 months preparation and replying to similar queries.
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Hey this is serious,Pls reply to my nudge.I'll definetely do my best to help u.