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i m really depressed
please help me
I am a failure in life.i want to kill myself but i feel this will make things worse for the people who care?
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Paagal ho gaye ho kya!!!
I know that this time this very precious and there's a huge amount of pressure on most of us. Don't surrender to this pressure of studies. Let me tell you from my experience that whatever you are going to study in these days will surely help you in the exam. So, study hard.
And don't think about all that non-sense stuff. Think about your well-wishers, parents and family. Unki bhi to fikr karo. Life doesn't end here. Put in the effort and you'll be definitely rewarded later on.
Read the following story:-
I read it here on goiit (It is one of the articles on goiit. I don't have the link). (Guys it's not written by me. I have not given it here for rates)
NEVER SAY DIE ATTITUDE
This powerful story would educate what determination is all about and even more reminds us that at no circumstances should we quit our efforts. If there is one way of doing it, do it
In 1883, a creative engineer named John Roebling was inspired by an idea to build a spectacular bridge connecting New York with the Long Island. However bridge building experts throughout the world thought that this was an impossible feat and told Roebling to forget the idea. It just could not be done. It was not practical. It had never been done before.
Roebling could not ignore the vision he had in his mind of this bridge. He thought about it all the time and he knew deep in his heart that it could be done. He just had to share the dream with someone else. After much discussion and persuasion he managed to convince his son Washington, an up coming engineer, that the bridge in fact could be built. Working together for the first time, the father and son developed concepts of how it could be accomplished and how the obstacles could be overcome.
With great excitement and inspiration, and the headiness of a wild challenge before them, they hired their crew and began to build their dream bridge. The project started well, but when it was only a few months underway a tragic accident on the site took the life of John Roebling. Washington was injured and left with a certain amount of brain damage, which resulted in him not being able to walk or talk or even move.
“We told them so.” “Crazy men and their crazy dreams.” “It’s foolish to chase wild visions.” Everyone had a negative comment to make and felt that the project should be scrapped since the Roeblings were the only ones who knew how the bridge could be built. In spite of his handicap Washington was never discouraged and still had a burning desire to complete the bridge and his mind was still as sharp as ever. He tried to inspire and pass on his enthusiasm to some of his friends, but they were too daunted by the task. As he lay on his bed in his hospital room, with the sunlight streaming through the windows, a gentle breeze blew the flimsy white curtains apart and he was able to see the sky and the tops of the trees outside for just a moment. It seemed that there was a message for him not to give up.
Suddenly an idea hit him. All he could do was move one finger and he decided to make the best use of it. By moving this, he slowly developed a code of communication with his wife. He touched his wife’s arm with that finger, indicating to her that he wanted her to call the engineers again. Then he used the same method of tapping her arm to tell the engineers what to do. It seemed foolish but the project was under way again.
For 13 years Washington tapped out his instructions with his finger on his wife’s arm, until the bridge was finally completed. Today the spectacular Brooklyn Bridge stands in all its glory as a tribute to the triumph of one man’s indomitable spirit and his determination not to be defeated by circumstances. It is also a tribute to the engineers and their teamwork, and to their faith in a man who was considered mad by half the world. It stands too as a tangible monument to the love and devotion of his wife who for 13 long years patiently decoded the messages of her husband and told the engineers what to do.
Perhaps this is one of the best examples of a never-say-die attitude that overcomes a terrible physical handicap and achieves an impossible goal.
Often when we face obstacles in our day-to-day life, our hurdles seem very small in comparison to what many others have to face. The Brooklyn Bridge shows us that dreams that seem impossible can be realized with determination and persistence, no matter what the odds are. Even the most distant dream can be realized with determination and persistence
The morale of the story is:- Don't give up. God will show you some other path where you'll flourish and succeed.
focus on studies. u ahvnt seen real life yet. school time etc are the easiest of times. so get a grip fight it out. nothing can go worng during this time. u make it to iit or u dont, u can make a great future none the less provided wherever u r, u fight to the best of your capabilities. focus on that. all this messaging is just clutter n waste of time. if u dont feel upto it, take a break for a day. chill out. remember hell is... not knowing this is heaven.
tc
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wot kind of man u r????
u have asked same que 5 months b4 also...
tera dimaag kharaab h kya???
jab padhna nhi tha to drop kyu kiya bhai????