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Have patience to read this See the twists in my life.....I think only goiitians can help me out...My life became as question....The 3rd para is very imp U will take less than 5 min to read ...Plz I want ur 5 min time of ur whole life...Even my parents dont know this....
I was from a town in A.P...I studied in some school(state board) where no one speaks eng properly...but faculty was awsome...They told us to speak eng but we never listened...My basics were good.To be frank I studied well defeating who ever comes in my way...I got to know about IIT by my friend and my sir.So I collected information of IIT and what to do for it by 10 th and made a plan.I started reading NCERT IX and X and i finished...I told about IIT to my parents and they encouraged me....I thought of joining narayana in hyd but i hate hostel....SO we thought shifing to hyd
I scored good in 10th...and even my school was proud of me,, And this was twist I never expected .Due to some personal and financial reasons,I was to go to bangalore and study,,,,It unexpectedly happened, I came there by june and almost all admissions are over.Finally I got in some good college which I deserved by luck...This college has awsome library that 90% of all iit books are available....I searched for Coaching institute...I was not selected for FIIT JEE and all other adm were are over.FInally I selected in Brilliant...
I joined in August and vry late...Faculty amd Material was super as u know....In math trign was over,,,,, chem-stoich,states of matter,chem bond were over,,,,,,phy----units and dimensions to work and energy was over....I was very good at math...AS for phy and chem previous were used in next chap I had not understood mechanics and phy chem...FIrst i thought of startind from first after i realised and practised from chap they were dealing...Now it is like i cant go back and go front....For chem.org was started so now there was no prob....But for phy what i missed was really imp.....so i cant understand anything now what to do ???All my freinds were understanding but I was not....
Now I am not able to manage both boards and JEE...I am getting less marks in both.My parents were thinking that my performance goes down....SOme times I feel I dont have it any more.....But i didnt want to give up.My parents were spending much and expecting some thing good from me.....I just dont want to hurt so I didnt told them...
My exams were in jan,feb... I had jee classes till feb.I was free in mar,april....
I was good in math
Mechanics and Phy chem was over but I dont know anything of them....not able to solve any prob
My confidence and motivation level is going to 0....help me what to do
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See yaar...............u know wat..........
"Ur qualities are best shown when u r in a very difficult condition"
means the actual 'U' is in these type of situations...................
Just be relaxed first...........if possible...do Yoga and meditation for appropriate relaxation.
Then, organise ur planning in such a way that u r most comfortable in it......give time to all things and make study very interesting. Study in those hours when ur mind is to its fullest.....U can do it..........."I can do it"...these r the words u tell urself frequently............u write ur goals in a paper and stick it ther wher u visit frequently ....read it......u'll feel better..............u will see the lost confidence rising up in u..................U R THE BEST................
Don't rate this post..........Itz for sumbody's help and i don't want anything for it...........plz don't rate.........thnk u.
first thing is that the unnecessary hallucination is lurking in ur mind that u have join coaching late for preparation of jee.just forget that and statr preparering good frm ur side .
if ur are not able to score good in school then judge urself where are u laking and ask frm ur subject teacher to discuss ur mistake and get the idea of improving them.all the teachers are helpers but u have to take initiative to tell ur problem.
in brilliant also after the class u can tell ur problems to teachers they ''ll definately suggest u something,
front to front suggestions are more useful than these postings its give u stimulation
important thing is to get out of ur problems insted of thinking about it
ok .......
your story can be a time pass for 77 people who have viewed your problem but for me it is a problem of a real concern and something to be really tackled with great sincerety and thought.
look...problems are a part of life .you are a capable student and it seems life has controlled you its time when you have to control your life and get out of this mess.first of all do what all you can do simultaneously with your lectures and then switch over to the tasks left behind YOU WILL EASILY CATCH UP....DONT WORRY
try to to start fresh.....u have too much tym....u can even get an rank of 1 in jee 2010......its nots imposible.......i am in the 12th and i have jus started preps...i am in state board....i know dat u have too much tym....jus try to make use of it.....trust me starting is the most important part.....pls read this article ...it may help u......
http://goiit.com/posts/list/community-shelf-geting-scared-of-the-approaching-iitjee-xam-90799.htm...
hi !!!!
I m answering u !!bt plz dont rate it !!!!
the first thing tht tension ko apne mind se bhaga de !! aur mast ho jaa meri tarah !!!!!
I didnt do mechanics and physical chemistry and I m a dropper bt u do first thing go to
offline now and do meditation and yoga for 15-20 minute and u will find ur self some
relax.Second thing never come online !! whn u will come online u will nt see the things
for which u r coming online u will see two more new things !!! For mechanics u should
take a book H.C.Verma and read it with full concentration and make a time ki mujhe
4 ghante H.C.Verma padni hai nt more thn 2 weeks and u will find after two weeks tht
my mechanics is nw complete.The same thing do with Phyical Chemistry after
completing mechanics and take as book of NCERT for theory and for Numerical u can
go with ur class notes . And the most important thing ki pehle board ki tayaari baad me
jee ki !!!And the last but impotant tht u tell abt this to your parents I m sure tht they
will help u !! they will nt discourage u ! and they will give u the best solution !!!
Meri bahut si problems ko mere parents ne hi solve kiya jo mujhse hoti nahi hai unhe
main apne parent se hi discuss karta hoon !!!!!
Best of Luck !!! do these things now !! Act now as u have less time !!!!!!
hello friend...!!!! 1st of all main itna bolunga ki u r not in history.tumhari life to abhi suru hui hai yaar.2nd thing is that if u r not able to do well in ur board preparations,then i think that u should reserve atleast 20-25 days only for ur board syllabus completion which r more than enough.u can score even 95% if u do ur preparation according to a strategy.but also write down all those things which u r reading,so that u can revise them without wasting much time.and after these 25 days u can have enough time for preparing for IIT-JEE.my own friend RAGHWENDRA SINGH(IIT-JEE AIR-716) was having the same type of problem and he was unable to manage both his school and coaching studies.and in the first FIIT-JEE test he scored only 35 percentile.but yaar usne haar nahi mani.aur doston ko kuch samay k liye alvida kaha.and u won't believe.he scored 96.6% in cbse and also cleared aieee with 2093 rank.i am saying all these things because he was never very good in studies and till 11th grade he scored only 73% and was never in top 10 in his class.but just a desire to make her friend(gf) happy and to prove their parents,he became hero of our school by topping all these exams.one last thing,HAAR MAT MANO.bhagwan ne sabke liye rastey bana rakhe hain.humein to bas unpar chalna hai.so what will happen next dont think about that.but use all ur potential in thinking about present my friend.problems to sabko ho rahi hai aur hogi bhi.u can ask even the top most student of ur coaching whether he is feeling nervous or not.aur koi fikra mat karo.sirf padhai karo.aur timepass ko kuch samay k liye alvida kaho.i bet u can crack IIT with good rank and also do well in ur board exams.and i think that u r thinking 2 much about ur past performance which has nothing to deal with ur future.plz avoid them .God Bless u!!! Gud Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
first of all juzz calm down.................& .relax.................
have faith in urself.........................believe me u can do it.......................nthing is impossible...............the word itself means i m possible........................
u hav a lot of tym......................u r IIT2010.aspirant...................& nt 2009...................think bout those who have 2 giv jee2009 & havnt started yet..................if they can do it..........or even if they hav the confidence 2 do it ..............then y cant u????
dont ever lose ur confidence............................remember if u lose it, then u'll lose IIT too...............4 it is the test of confidence only ...........now the decision is urs.....................
here r a few points to plan ur studies,...................juzz go thru them........................
1) i will recommend u nt 2 study by setting time 4 the diff topics.........................it may seem shocking 2 u bt trust me itz necessary......................see if u study by setting time, then u'll nt b able 2 study wid full concentration.................coz ur mind will try 2 keep track of the tym.................& u'll see the watch again & again...............soon u'll start feeling bored or will be fed up of it...........
2) in the morning juzz spend 10 mins thinking bout how many hours u can devote 2 ur studies in the whole day...........& how much portion u can complete in those hours......................do a lot of masti - come online, chat , watch tv, play wid frnds or do nything that u feel lyk doing........................bt by the time u go to bed u should hav completed the portion that u decided in the morning,..................in this way studies will nt seem boring as u'll get tym 4 other activities also which is definitely vry important.........................
3)also avoid studying too many topics simultaneously............................take up 1 topic.................dont touch ny other sub or topic until u finish it.....................only after completing it...................take up another 1
4)dont miss ur ongoing topics...........................listen 2 all ur lectures vry carefully......................
5) if u commute by bus, then u can juzz recall evrythng that u studied last night while sitting in the bus............try 2 utilize ur tym efficiently............!!
6)if u r nt able 2 do much frm the 2 topics mentioned by u then dont worry , make other topics ur strength...............................bt i'll definitely recommend u to practise them coz they r easy if understood & scoring too..................
7)lastly i wanna say that " u r nt able 2 do those 2 topics coz u hav formed a picture in ur mind that u cant do it..............or probably u feel dat itz juzz out of ur range..................dont let this thought come in ur mind again...................coz till then u'll nt b able 2 nythng"
"success is going frm failure 2 failure without loss of enthusiasm"
Thomas Edison tried 9999 times 2 perfect the light bulb & hadn't suceeded. Sum1 asked him " are u going 2 hav 10,000 failures???" He answered , " I didn't fail, i just discovered another way nt 2 invent the electric bulb ."
this should be ur approach..................if u r nt able 2 solve the problems, then dont think dat u hav failed bt instead think dat u hav juzz discovered another way nt 2 solve the problem
just try 2 follow the above steps i hav mentioned............................& u'll find the change in urself..............within few weeks................
we GOIITIANS can just show u the path u shud take bt ultimately only u can help urself.......................remember " God helps those who help themselves"
this is my 1st post on goiit( leaving the ques i asked )............................& i m happy that it will do some good 2 u.........................
this is the 1st time in my life that i hav typed sooo much...............................& i hope it will nt be in vain......................
ALL THE BEST!!!!
THanks for all the replies....i thought i am the one facing this kind of prob....but everyone are facing only this type of prob...( not exactly )
Now Plz tell me how to get rid of the following habits....
1)reading on bed.....i tried many times to sit and work....but after 1 and 1/2 hrs...i feel very lazy and cant control my self and i will be reading on bed....and after 1 hr i feel sleepy and i will sleep....
2)wasting time in internet.....the internet is big time sucker...
3)not able to conc properly....when my bro watches film in next room..i dont feel like studying....my mind goes towards that film...after obv....i will watch that film...
Alsp plz tell me can i finish phy chem,mechanics,waves,s.p-block in 2 & 1/2 months.....
Physical chem means-----stoichiometry,gaseous state,atomic structure,Redox,Electrolysis,Chem bonding,chem eq , ionic eq,Thermodynamics,thermochemistry only....
hi,first of all ,dont be tensed and be confident that you can do it,you must understand that you just need to set your priorities right,if you study regularly for 3-4 hrs a day for jee,then you can enjoy your entire life after clearing jee,it doesnt mean that you must not watch tv,not relax on internet or like that,it just means that you must balance your studies and fun,and pls avoid studying lying on the bed,and make sure you have a study table in a room free from noise and disturbance,and regarding completion of mechanics and phy chem,study them till you are thorough with all the concepts,dont worry,you have lot of time,all the best.
Yo dude
I'll tell you a story ...
There was this boy...
not very good in studies..... during his school days, he'd sit under a banyan tree near his house, solving puzzles from puzzle books
He got a almost decent 73% in his 10th board exams...... On the day he finished his board exams, he collected all his books, put them in a bag, and flung them into a river(this really happened!!)
He made it one of the good colleges in Goa thanks to his almost average marks
Someone told him about JEE and somehow he was attracted to the idea of "THE BEST INSTITUTE IN INDIA". So he set his mind to it.
He continued his average run in college exams. He'd spend most of his time in college on the basketball court. Infact once when a teacher asked where he was, his classmates unanimously pointes to the basketball court, even though on tht day he really was sick and absent!!!
While he shone at his coaching class (which trained students strictly for JEE/AIEEE), he kept performing badly at his board exams, and kept getting worse at answering subjective questions ( He knew the answers, he just couldn't phrase them correctly)
One day his maths teacher in college, after seeing his marks in his mid-terms exclaimed " yeh toh college boards ko hi pass nahi karega, JEE to door ki baat hai". Even his parents were worried about his future, and didn't believe his coaching class teacher when he told them that he was a very bright student.
his prelims went no better, and he scored just 48 out of hundred in maths ( a fact which he never told his coaching class teacher!!)
Then came his boards and entrance...... both came and went
Boards went brilliantly and he scored a totally unexpected 74%!! (It was high by his standards)
and then came the big day, the JEE results...... and guess what, he got a AIR 400 rank (roughly)
Currently he's doing B.Tech in Mech at IIT-B (current GPA =8.6)
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OK, first, I'd clarify.that guy is NOT me..he's my senior friend
But see, his story was an inspiration to us all....someone who was ignored on one place was hailed as a genius in the other!!
Ignore what people say.everyone wants to discourage you...since they haven't done it, they tell U that U can't either.......just ignore them, and stick to your goals
you're sure to succeed!!
The JEE is not only a test of problem solving, but its a test of mental strength as well.......NO PROBLEM IN JEE is tough!!
They're all tricky!! Most of them can be solved with even basic formulae
Don't let the exam mess wit your mind..answering JEE with a messed up mind is worse than not answering it at all
So just stick to your schedule
For S,P,D block simply read about it for an hour every day
For physical chem, solve a few problems every day and U'll be good at it
Concentrate more on the concepts........ even in Inorganic chem, over time, concepts begin to set in and you can deduce answers. this puts less pressure on your memory (U don't have to by-heart as much)
Most importantly, believe in Urself....... I've gone thru this phase...U feel completely useless if U can't solve atleast 3 out of 5 problems, U keep comparing Ur level of preperation with Ur peers, U don't understand where U're going wrong, you mess up simple problems etc etc
Just forget all this.....take it cool
Go at it step by step, and U will be successful
Those were my 50 cents of advice
hope this helps
cheers!!
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