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hey guys do u think tht if we want 2 b liked by everyone we have 2 change ourselfs means do u think tht our own principles can come into our way at that point of time what should one do? should we chose d relations or our principles? what will u do?
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hmmmmmm........ whatever u do the fact remains the same.....u cant please EVERYONE .if u successfully please one group of people u will end up displeasing another group of people.
so,no point in changing urself for others. true frnds r those who like u as u r
But do make sure that ur principles r right.!!!!
well! yes even i came across such situaions.all i can say is try ur best not to announce ur principles aloud bcoz even if they r right u might end up being vehemently opposed and dont enter into any arguments or dont try 2 convince others that u r right concerning those principles.disappointing though it is u cant change the world.even if u r forced in2 argument try ur best not 2 offend others by pointing out that they r wrong(damn difficult!!).no 1 likes 2 b correced.but if u r supposed 2 act then do not hesitate 2 follow ur principles.a person with no strong principles is equal 2 a wicked one.even if u make enemies people will realise that u r a principled person and secretly respect u.i am sure sooner or later u will earn surprisingly great frnds bcoz of ur principles.true frnds i mean.not the ones who'd leave u bcoz of petty reasons(nd many enemies ofcourse!can help!)
i begin with the word of the day 'CHANGE'... (changes were there in jee pattern...duh....y do i have to write things in brackets..cant u all understand without them>>>0..
yes...change...
change ur principles whenever needed...change the ways u sort the problems out ...be a chameleon (thats not a good example..)
but all i want to say is that WE CHANGED ..THATS Y WE R NOT MONKEYS ...
u want to be liked by everyone.....for a change..try being original...
(if u wud like to ..then one fine day ..i can sit down and make u understand ...THERE R NO PRINCIPLES IN REALITY )
WAITING FOR OTHERS TO TAKE A INITIATIVE AND COME TO U. IT IS A VERY BAD ATTITUDE. THIS RESULTS IN THAT IF OTHERS MISTAKE U TO BE EGOISTIC, THEY WILL NEVER GET TO U. U WILL HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THIS POINT. NOW, U MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, CHECK THE OTHER'S RESPONSE AND ACCD. TO THAT U CAN RESPOND. IF LATTER IS MIXING TYPE OF PERSON, THEN THERE IS NO PROBLEM. BUT IF THE LATTER IS NOT GIVING A GOOD RESPONSE EVEN AFTER CONTINOUS PERUSALS, THERE IS NO NEED TO GET TO HIM.
HOPE THIS HELPS U.
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