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Hi guys n gals... most of us r clear by now about d next step in future... some of us have reached our goals... some havn't reached our expectations but r satisfied... n many havn't got what they desired n dreamed of... so i wanna ask a simple question to evry1 here... HOW BEST WILL U DEFINE LIFE...? or WHAT ACCORDING TO U IS LYF...?
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Life's lke having a cup of tea
U sit by the window
take a sip
Just to realise that
sm1 forgot to add the sugar
U
too lazy to garb sm sugar urself
smhow
manage to go thru it..
and
discover
the undissolved sugar cryatals at the lower end..
This is life....
So dont be lazy...go n explore the happiness around u....and njoy ur life!!!
Cheers!!
I dont wanna know about lyf actually... my question actually needed something more than u understand it at d first tym...
lemme answer dis question in my way...
b4 all d results were out n almost all my exams were over... around 1 month back... i was pretty confident of getting into IIT's with a worthy rank in hand... to a li'l extent i even didn't concentrate much on other exams too... it doesn't mean dat i was proud... i was confident... i counted my marks n asked many ppl about my chances of getting rank in JEE... all were sure dat i would definitely get a rank below 1500... i too was confident n happy with my 2 yrs of effort... once d results were out... it was a shock to me dat made me unconscious mentally for 2 days... later one-by-one all d results turned down... my future, which seemed glittering to me a few days back, has nothing left out for me now... yet i'm not weak by heart... i realised a lottt from dis... i changed my view of lyf... my attitude... n i changed myself...
so i juzz wanna know if any such incidents took place in ur lyf which would inspire people lyk me all around... with that intention... i started dis discussion... hope i would succeed in my first trial in goiit...
~Cheers
hiii
to everyone present here................
ya life..............
one of the important topics of our life....
first of all.....
life isnt all abt success.....
its mixture of suceess and failures.................
and success..........
as i believe ......is
" success is not winning small battles....
it means winning the war...........................yaar"
common.....
these IIT....NITs...ALL THESE EXAMS ARE JUST small battles....
u have to find what the war is...
for me the war is ...to become one of the good persons of this world....to build a company with my friends.......
(and i know.....i am gonna do it...as my frnd circle is superbbbbbb...)
so the point is....
" what is this IIT....
NOTHING MAN....
u have to win this life......"
let me tell u one of the incidents...
my brother...
hasnt qualified....
IIT.....no regional colleges...(now NIT...)
AND HAS DONE HIS ENGINEEERING FROM...NIT SULTANPUR...one of the college of UP...
but he was not depressed.....
he was just as cool as me....
(kidding ..bro...)
ya ..but cool...he worked hard....his main focus was IIM....AND believe me...
in his first attempt....he put all the effoorts....
i have seen him working...
he toils much...
but he did not go through....
he again take it as a cool but he again believe in himself....that he will be doing something...grt..
he had that confidence...and he got a call from one of the CAT colleges...
but not IIM....HE AGAIN COMPROMISED BUT BELKIEVE IN HIMSELF....
and his starting package was.....4.5 lacs...from that college....as he was the topper...but aafter three years
he is getting 35 lacs........
in delhi...
can u believe it..
"
so the point is....
success is hardwork / concentration/confidence + luck too...
so luck will be playing its own part...sometime...but it is not in ur own hands...
so
u can only do
keep working hard...
and "
BELIEVE IN URSELF AS I BELIEVE IN U....................'
ALL THE BEST
U ROCK....(BELIEVE ME).....
DON
if you attain success it is a heart break because you see all those whom you considered youe once trying to pull you down and cultivating malice against you
and if you do not make it then well it is a heart break due to not having been able to make it
then what is the purpose of this gift of lfe?
to make your way successfully thruogh these heartbreaks .at every stage there will be another big bag of problems waiting for you to be opened and you will have to open it,face it,solve it and emerge out beacuse you have no other option
if you suceed well and good and if you do not then you learnt that your attitude was wrong and you learned what sort of an approach or attitude is to be followed while dealing with that particular sort of a situation
now you can solve these problems and counter these heartbreaks in two ways
either happily,progressively,positively
or
ignorantly,negatively
so now its up to you do you want to make your journey of life happy and progressive or sad,ill willed,negative.
-The Greatest Showman Raj Kapoor
NOW RELAX ............
listen some soulful music(Rahman,Richard...)
and start again
may you always succeed in future.
all the best
i think... thrs no one who cannot hav ny view about lyf... atleast someone lyk us who dream of achieving sth... if lyf is sth dat goes on... den wat r v doing here... n y r v striving so hard to achieve sth...!!! it is said in islam that THE ONLY WAY U CAN CHANGE UR FATE IS THROUGH DUA(prayer)... so nothing happens juzz lyk dat... even our fate can b changed...















ur view may b motivation to others... juzz giv a try...