If the lengths of sides of a,b,c of a triangle satisfy
2(bc2+ca2+ab2)=b2 c+c2a+a2b+3abc
or bc(2c-b) + ca(2a - c) + ab(2b - a) = 3abc
or bc(2c-b) -abc + ca(2a - c) -abc + ab(2b - a) - abc = 0
or bc(2c-b-a) + ca(2a - c - b) + ab(2b - a - c) = 0
so, (2c-b-a) = 0, (2a - c - b) = 0 and (2b - a - c) = 0
which further implies
2c = a + b
2a = c + b
2b = a + c
solving these three equations we obtain a = b = c
hence the triangle is equilateral
NOTE: since the equation is symmetric in a, b, and c. thus without deriving even we can conclude that the triangle is symmetric.