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spd4567 (0)

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I am a 12th passout this year
I didn't crack JEE this year but i scored 14000 Rank in AIEEE & 7200 in UPTU
i decided to drop so dat i can crack JEE . But now i am not able to continue my preparation coz due to some of the family problems my father is unable to pay money for my buks & tutions.Now i am feeeling dat i will not be able to do anything in life.I am not getting dat wat shud i do coz without buks & tutions i will never be able to crack any competitive exam & without it i will not be able
to do my engineerong from any gud college & then my whole life will be spoilt 
 
My whole talent will all be in vain & so my whole life will be destroyed
Now i am very much depressed of all theese things & now everytime wrong thoughts came in my mind of ending everything .I think u might understand my situation coz if these situations persists then i will not be able to bear it nay more afterall i hav a limit also to bear
 
So plz experts suggest me wat to do coz i am in a very very gr8 trouble & i really want a strong & urgent reply from u coz now the time i s becoming very difficult for me & i cannot sustail with all these very long
 
Waiting for urgent reply
 
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heey yaarr!!!!!!!
dont gett depressd ..
datzz da thing vrone will tell u....
 
forget it...
fist tell me will ur father br ready to send u to the college..
cozz u say money problem?????????
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first of all remove the fear and negative thoughts from ur mind that u won't be abl 2 crack jee..
u r a 12th passout so u wud have covered ur 11th and 12th sylabbus....
so just revise and practice a lot...
who says that tuitions r a must ??? if u r regular ,dedicated hard worker then u can crack " ANY" exam.....(and u say u hav d talent , so why lose hope ??? )
REMEMBER THE FIVE Ps
Proper Preparation Prevents Poor Performance.....
So focus on your preparation and nothing else.....
There are many sites which offer online question papers 4 practice like
there are many sites which offer study material ( like goiit )which wud of course help u.....
and last but not the least we goiitians r there to help u ....
So leave all your tension
and try to reach your destination....(iit)
 
all the best...!!!!!!!

woods are lovely, dark and deep.....
but i have promises to keep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
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 hats off for bhuvan for such inspirational nudge
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listen frnd
forget abt ending evrything
there are 2 options
1)prepare for next year
for this you can continue with ur old books that u had used this year or ask some friend. i am sure they will not disappoint u.
2) join a college
niether of ur ranks are bad
with 7k in uptu
i guess u can get KIET and IPEC both and they are good
 
 
even if u wish to drop this yr
the goiitians are always there to help u. tuitions are not a necessary thing.
i am sure u will think coolly, with a clear ahead and do well!
All The Best!
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hi frd...bhuvan is very very rite..... u mus b having ur ncerts 4 sure....jus study them hard...and yes....y not borrow sum buks frm frds seniors...etc....even ur skool teachers can help u....u can ask frm them......plus check out these sites lik swing wind..u can practise...plus..we r here..if u feel tht u dont hav enuf practise material....mak a request 2 goiitianz ..they wud share their material 4 sure....a member has even started tests 4 goiit members..u can enroll to it....go 4 it buddy...jus dont loose hope...and lastly....acc to me...jo banda AIEEE mein 1st attempt mein 14000 rank la sakta hai....wo mehnat karke wonders kar sakta hai...jus dont loose hopeeeeeeeeeeee
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thanx ..... its my pleasure .....
 
and ya remember encouragement can do wonders ....!!!!  believe me.....
 
 
 
 
 

woods are lovely, dark and deep.....
but i have promises to keep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
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hello ,


i see you have a money problem also..

see , your ranks are not bad.14000 in aieee means you have a good state rank right?

try getting something in a NIT with your state rank.or use your UPTU rank.

take a loan , study hard in college..see if you can slide.

try taking a good stream , even if the college may have a comparitively low reputation.

work for a couple of years ,pay off the loan and prepare for MS/MBA

that's what i would do..

if you need any help with student loans , i'll be happy to help cos i recently took one and i did research on the subject..

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Hi!
There is no point getting depressed.Always be brave and fight for everything.Never give up in life.Thats what i can say.What you can do is do some course of your choice in some low key college.During the course you can prepare for JAM GRE etc.And once the course is done youll be in a position to write these exams well if you work hard for them.You can always change everything in your life with a post graduation degree in a IIT or prestigious colleges abroad.You ll be knowing that a good score in GRE will get you a good scholarship.Meanwhile you can do something else to take care of your money problem.ont worry at all.V r there for help.Hope my tip would help you.
 
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who the hell says to go for tuitions???????
see dear
i am serious aspirant of jee and have not even stepped for tuitions
you should have confidence and desire to succeed
aur haan depression is a slow poision
so relax
i think you should definitly join a college
becoz first attempt is first attempt
and your rank is good
enough
further!!!!!!!
hum hain naaaaaaaaa
cheer up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
 

nobody is wrong
even a stopped clock is right twice a day
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man jus chill coz don't think IIT is everything, you can go in foriegn too.




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this might also b of help to u
http://www.goiit.com/posts/list/general-some-useful-sites-part-2-12415.htm

woods are lovely, dark and deep.....
but i have promises to keep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
and miles to go before i sleep....
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First use the advice that the people here are giving, along with that which people around you in real life give + the stuff that you can think up yourself.

If you really can't change anything despite all that, or you can't come to terms with what is happening around you, then i would seriously recommend you read some philosophy books. I have been perenially depressed for most of my teen years and I used to turn to philosophy and music to escape. I would recommend you read Buddhist philosophy, cause Buddhism is not a religion, and I would also recommend you read up on Karma and stuff like that.....I really mean what I say, but do this only if you can't take it anymore, cause otherwise, you might not tend to take it seriously. It's only when we really are in trouble that we can appreciate stuff like this.

Let me tell you one thing about suicide, do NOT go for it. It will affect everyone around you in an incredibly horrible way......
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Cheer up, don't get depressed. Success is very relative term. You are prepared to work hard, so you are bound to succeed.
If you are getting admission in engineering college, do join. Work hard to get your degree in flying colours. For PG you can again think of IIT through entrance exam, alternatively MBA through CAT in good institute is another option open to you. Other good opportunities will also be available once you get your degree.
Joining a college for B.Sc. and simultaneously preparing for JEE is another option you can try. Here you will not lose one precious year of life. If you are able to get the desired result well & good, otherwise after B.Sc. again  try for PG programmes in IIT, IISc, etc.
Talk to your father frankly about what you want to do. You have passed XII and have appeared for JEE means you must be having study material with you. So there is no need to join any class, practice a lot at home, others have already listed useful web sites from which you can get the desired help.  Those who have joined classes can also help you.Here also you can get necessary help from experts.
Driveout the depression and start action as per plan you select. Best wishes.