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COBRA

HI EVERYBODY,

FIRST I AM VERY VERY THANKFUL TO HIMANSHU AND DON,BOTH OF YOU ARE LIKE GOD FOR ME AND SORRY FOR NOT WRITING MY POST IN ENGLISH AS I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH IN ENGLISH AND I FEEL MUCH MORE COMFORTABLE IN HINDI AND I FEEL THAT I CAN EXPRESS MY PROBLEMS CORRECTLY ONLY IN HINDI.BUT FROM NOW I WILL WRITE MY POST ONLY IN ENGLISH AS ACCORDING TO THE WISHES OF GOIITANS.

AND SORRY TO HIMANSHU AS THE ANSWER IS TOO GOOD THAT I CAN'T STOP MY SELF FROM FROM GIVING SALUTES TO YOU AND I AM VERY VERY THANKFUL TO YOU AND DON WHO GAVE ME SUCH A WONDERFUL ANSWER. I HOPE THAT BOTH OF YOU WILL HELP ME AGAIN IF I AM AGAIN IN SOME PROBLEM IN MY MISSION IIT-2008.

THANK YOU ALL AND SEE YOU AGAIN.

Shruti_merc

Please take sum time 2 read this patiently....

Hello All.........

Thanks to all of u for posting such +ve things here..

I hav a problem & hope to seek some solution here..

These 4 months <April, May, June, July>

have been the worst months of my life.

I had expected a lot from myself, had worked as hard as i could but i ended up screwing my JEE & AIEEE.

N so,,

I ended up with not-a-very-good-rank in AIEEE.

My problem is dat,

I somehow want to get admission this year itself.

I hav stopped trusting my damn lucck.

It feels dat nothing is going to be right ever.... :(

I mean,

I did all dat i could, n still cudnt get nething........... :((

Have spent months in depression..

Have held myself responsible 4 doing nothing 4 my parents..

Tho they have supported me all troughout i hav always felt that i hav not been able to make them happy....

It hurts all d more to see people who were always not very 'deserving' <if i may use d word>

doiung better than u..

People in my class, Who never did better dan me in a single test have made their way..

All our in soe engg college or d other..

It really hurts badly..

Never thot it would happen to me..

1day i wud c myself, the lowest amoung them all...........

I blame myself 4 all dat..

But its not dat i didnt work..

I really dont knw how i screwed up things badly.:((

Neways,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Now i m trying 4 Collgs with not a very Good reputation as compared to IITs ofcourse.

I always wanted to do Engg from a good collg,

But then i hav no choice left with me..

The back of my mind screams the hell out of me that i have to get admission this year itself..

So,,,,,,,

I plan to take a good stream in an okaish collg this year and put in all dat i can in those 4yrs.

N as DON sed,,

U can take up an okaish collg n do veryy well their..

So dat is wat i hope 4 myself........

If u ppl cud suggest....

Is dat OK??

I mean taking admn in some not-very-gr8 collg this year n do extremely well there?

I have been thru a phase of depression bcoz of all dat has happened in d past,

Bcoz of my performance,

Seeing how ppl who were well below me in the class, making to such good places.......

Its been pathetic.

I hav destroyed my health 4 d same..

Doctors have warned me against taking tension,

Hav undergone counselling n all....

But wat wud actually release my tension, will be i getting admitted into an Engg Collg next year...

Despite of all demotivation 7 depression i still aim to make something big in life..

I want to do pursue higher studies after this and do something really unconventional n show it to everyone around..

I would be extremely greatfull if ne1 can help me with this..

How can i get out of this depressing phase?

&

Will it be a fine decision to take admn this year?

And,,,,

Congrats to all,,

Especially DON & Himanshu,

4 helping ppl out here in such a big way..

Ur motivatng words really help..

Thanks loads.

Shruti_merc

Sorry for all the spelling mistakes in d above post..

Was in a really depressed state while writing dat...

Didnt pay much attention 2 al dat..

sorry..

chimanshu_007

First of all hiiiee....

well , now reading wat u have written , i have come to a point that...

SOMETIMES U DONOT GET WAT U DESERVE , SOMETIME U DONOT DESERVE WAT U GET

see yaar , u said u studied very well bt cudnot make it thru , well i can say its okk , now results are out , and everyting's a past...u have been in depression , but tell me is it gonna help u or change ur result in ne way????????

well the ans is no , so y to take tension..

see u said , i dnt believe my luck , coz this year u screwed things up...

tell me , wat is LUCK?????? is it everytym good????? this year u gt a bad rank , may be it was ur bad luck....but u dnt know wen ur luck will change coz after every night , there's a beautiful morning...

And as far as those things are concerned , i.e students who gt rank below u , i say dnt compete with nebody , jst compete with urself , thats wats important

well about the future (coz past is past now , nthng gonna change , y to discuss) , yes i can say that DON bhai is correct , if u get a good branch in an okish college take that (if and only if u dnt wanna drop) ....then do MBA , u will get a very good job with a good package....still u can prove urself....coz life gives us a new challenge every moment.....

so cheer up gal , chaar din ki zindagi hai....khul k jiyo

ALL THE VERY BEST :)

DON007

firstly i should thank COBRA AND SHRUTI,.......for liking my post.......and to my grt frnd himanshu....(happy birthday yaar.....once more..)....

now........SHRUTI:......

look.......

dont worry.....

as u said that u didnt get good rank in AIEEE.....and in many eng colleges.....and u r depressed.......

thats where u have lacked..............

getting depressed is biggest crime gor any student......

dont do it....

and never ever take jee prep and college side by side.........

many people think......

they can do....but in practical./..it cant.....

u have taken the right decision...................

best branch from a moderate college..............

its very good......

and one thing more......

as u have said many students who were below u are now above.......

no....its all in ur mind shruti......

dont think it.....

look i ,m telling u .....

what u have to think....

if i were u .....i will be thinking....." i should do electronics or (whatever u have taken)......from okaish college.....there i will perform the best....because lets say ....

the avg placement of ur college is bad...lets say 2.2lacs......

but...the highest placement will be 4.8 lacs......lets say ......

thats equivalent to avg placement in IIT /NIT......

so

u can prove ur skills at any point of time.....

after 4 yrs when u wil come out of ur college......

nobody will ask ur college name they will ask ur placement skills....yaar......

ok/....

and then make a plan.....of doing MBA with the best institution.....

i will also be doing MBA after 4 yrs WITH THE BEST .....so lets hope to see.....u there after 4 yrs.......ok......

so have a positive attitude......

look.....at this.....for ur postive attitude....

http://www.goiit.com/posts/list/community-shelf-you-have-two-choices-6452.htm

and follow three principles.....

DON007

1 " JIYO KHUSH RAHO....KYA PATA KAL HO NAA HO",........dont get depressed........

2 think......" KAL USKA RAHA ......AB HAI TERA IS RAAT SE"......MEANS.....

'yesterday.....was their time but from this night ....its totally urs"

3 dont get worried......" these r just the smal battles ....if u r fed up with these battles only/.......how will u face the war.....".....

so live life....and think ur future is bright......

then ur future will be bright....so.....

enjoy.....and one thing more......

http://www.goiit.com/posts/list/counselling-how-can-a-person-be-so-genius-10056.htm#56012 - see DONs answer in this topic...u will feel relaxed.....

many more to say...but......yaha aur der raha ...then seniors will be taking ragging,.,,,,,,,bye.....

and chak de,.....

piyachopra

u all r awesome....

thnx for giving such nice n innovative suggestions:)))))))))))

aravindh_ramaswamy

Hats-off DOn and himanshu for carrying on such a wonderful job!

I really admire u guyz!

ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dream_iit

YUP

fantastic JOB

cheers fr DON and himanshu......my bro.s

hats off :) :)

bits360.com

Yes , excellent job ppl . Keep those +ve thoughts flowing.

Shruti_merc

Thanks a lot DON & Himanshu...

U ppl r doing a gr8 job..

U really helped me........

N yes,,

Wud follow ur suggestions n hope to c u doing MBA alongwith me after 4yrs..!

U really helped me out of my depression.........

Thanks so much.......

God Bless.. :)

DON007

thanku shruti.....

bits....

dream iit...

arvind

piya

i m veryu grateful....

lets rock yaar............

lets do mba from the best.....

and make a company of ours....that is biggest......

common....

and i m also thanking by the side of himanshu....

THANKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

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