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![[Post New]](/templates/default/images/icon_minipost_new.gif) 17 Apr 2008 19:43:59 IST
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Sir, I was considered as a bright student in my academic life uptill now(I know that it's no parameter to judge 1's knowledge)......I managed my studies on my own till 10th wid success(1st rank always) & joined coaching for first time in 11th to prepare for the gr8 IITJEE......... I gave iit jee this time around and expecting 150 marks.I very well know that this score can not fetch me top ranks(if any)...... So, I have decided to take drop and prepare for jee 09......although I haven't told my parents abt it....... I wasted whole of my 2 yrs-I spent only 30 mins for study on an average / day and strongly repent now.....but I don't want to go to any college except the IIT's.... my parents had great hopes from me & now I have a sense of guilt....they kept telling me the whole yr to conc but I didn't....... I cannot put any more burden on them by attending classroom coaching or any other program... I want to ask that is my decision right? will I be able to cope wid the studies on my own?.....though I have a lot of gud buks but they were just like a showcase previously...... So, shud I take drop? or accept it as my fate and go to any college by giving aieee or pet?........
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17 Apr 2008 19:46:29 IST
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in this decision i dont think anyone can help u
it is ur own decision
if u think u can take a drop and then score well next year, then go ahead
but then once the decision is taken it is taken
after that u shud not repent for ur decisions
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17 Apr 2008 19:48:24 IST
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once the decision is taken it is taken
after that u shud not repent for ur decisions
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krishna wants to crack cat,gate,ias,ph.d.nobody can stop him from doing it |
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17 Apr 2008 20:02:07 IST
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@dream and phanikrishna please read now....
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17 Apr 2008 20:03:21 IST
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i ll tell u such decisions are hard to make
u can try one more thing
u can take admission into some coll this year and then pursue both, ur first year as well as ur IIT studies
that way u ll not loose ur year also
but then, in doin so u will have to put in a lot of hard work
it wud literally double up
so u need to be mentally quite strong to bear it all
thats all i can say, FINAL DECISION IS URS
ALL THE BEST
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17 Apr 2008 20:06:21 IST
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If you think you can do it by dropping a year then go for it without any hesitation.
i am also dropping a year.......
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17 Apr 2008 20:06:32 IST
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@dream, if I take admission into sum college and simultaneously prepare for iit jee, don't u think that it wud b the same as managing skul studies(boards etc..) & jee prep...bcoz this too was 1 of the major cause of my downfall.....
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17 Apr 2008 20:06:49 IST
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i think my above post will answer ur query
and well i wud tell u that dont keep the truth away from ur parents
they are ur moral support
i too have done very bad, worst then u
but well, i told my parents and now i feel quite light
u try the same
hope i was able to help u
if u still have any doubt then nudge me
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17 Apr 2008 20:07:35 IST
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if you wish to drop i would suggest not joining any college
just concentrate completely on youur studies
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17 Apr 2008 20:10:35 IST
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well
the major difficulty of ur downfall was not this but it was that u had a little lesser passion for IIT
this i conclude on the basis that u studied only for half hour as u said
just manage time, have that desperation,that determination
and well of course the focus to succeed...........the only aim shud be to crack JEE as it wud be ur last attempt at it
i told u that JEE is not only studies but also mental battle
it drains one if he is not mentally prepared for it
this is what i feel
and i am planning to do (not decided yet)
some might agree with it , some might not
so ur decision
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17 Apr 2008 20:10:47 IST
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if u r determined n confident enough that u can clear IIT JEE next year
with gud marks then do that else dont.
u sud hav a lot of courage in taking dis decision.
well i am also dropping a year
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17 Apr 2008 20:12:15 IST
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ok but if I decide to drop, then wud it b possible for me or any1 like me to prepare without coaching or anybody to help ???
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17 Apr 2008 20:14:01 IST
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it will b difficult without coaching but one can manage 2 prepare
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17 Apr 2008 20:20:40 IST
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yes man
it is definitely possible
see, if u need any guidance, goiit will always be their for u
we all r their to give u any guidance that we cud give u
so all the best for ur decision making..................but right now conc on studies other exams
u might get a good coll like BITS also........which is no doubt xtremely good
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17 Apr 2008 20:40:44 IST
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hey dude!u r so determined take a drop....... |
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