I THINK ANS LIE SOMEWHERE IN CONCEPT OF STABILIZATION
WHEN XeF2 OR XeF4 IS FORMED 2&4 VALENCY ARE ONLY SATISFIED SO FOR STABILIZATION
THE Xe will donate the F molecule to attain stabilization
but for XeF6 DONATING 6 F molecule require more energy than accepting 2 F molec
so here it will accept 2 F ATOMS for stabilization
hope your doubt is cleared
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