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the locus of all the points from which the tangents to ellipse are mutually perpendicular is Director Circle of ellipse .
and equation of the director circle is {x}^{2} + {y}^{2} = {a}^{2} + {b}^{2}
since the point (a,3) are on the director circle ,
we have
{a}^{2} + 9 = 9 + 4
hence a=pm2